As I was reading through 2 Timothy today, something Paul said to Timothy stood out to me, and I’d like to share my thoughts about it with you.
I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.
2 Timothy 1:5 (NIV)
It might appear here that Paul is talking about faith as something that could be handed or passed down from one person to another. After all, we know genetic qualities can be passed on to children and grandchildren. Some even claim behavioral traits are literally passed on through genetics as well. What comes to mind is this verse from Proverbs.
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
Proverbs 22:6 (KJV)
This verse in Proverbs tells me that there’s more than one way to raise a child. It also tells me that a child isn’t going to turn away from the way they were raised. Even when they are older. There are plenty of people who were raised one way yet have turned away from the way they were raised. I know this verse from Proverbs to be something many Christian parents think about when they’re thinking about their children. Even those that have reached adulthood.
The faith Paul is telling Timothy about is something that he saw in Timothy’s grandmother Lois and his mother, Eunice. How did Paul see their faith? Isn’t faith internal?
But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds.” Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds.
James 2:18 (NIV)
We see here in James, that faith is quantifiable based on what we do in faith. Our works. However, we know that we are not justified by our works but by our faith. What’s the difference between works done in faith, and not in faith?
But whoever has doubts is condemned if they eat, because their eating is not from faith; and everything that does not come from faith is sin.
Romans 14:23 (NIV)
In the context of Romans 14, Paul was talking about those who have weak and strong faith. How those with a stronger faith ought to behave, concerning food, around those with a weaker faith. Hence, the statement here in verse 23 about eating. However, Paul could have stopped with his exhortation in verse 23 by saying that their eating is not from faith. Yet, we see he does not. Paul says everything that doesn’t come from faith is sin. This is a universal statement.
Faith brings glory to God.
And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.
Hebrews 11:6 (NIV)
So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
1 Corinthians 10:31 (NIV)
Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God.
Romans 4:20 (NIV)
Therefore, everything we do in faith brings glory to God. The nice things we did for people before we were saved are good examples of things not done in faith. Sure, it’s great to help an elderly lady cross the street with her groceries, but when it’s not done in faith, it’s not for the glory of God. How could someone, an unbeliever, do anything to the glory of God when they do not believe?
This is the difference between good works and works done in faith. I can do ten billion good works, and they mean nothing and have no value for salvation if they’re not done in faith. However, when I “declare with [my] mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in [my] heart that God raised him from the dead, [I am] saved (Romans 10:9 NIV). This could be the first act of faith for all who believe.
Therefore, the faith we demonstrate to our children when we raise them is something they can learn from and eventually obtain, to exercise when they are saved. We can take them to church, force them to pray, and read the Bible. However, without their faith, these are just meaningless works. This is where I think there’s a problem with what we see when we raise children.
If I tell my son to read his Bible and he reads it, is he doing it because I told Him to do it, or is he doing it because he has faith that, when he reads the Bible, God will do something in him? It’s great when our children do the things we tell them to do. However, I submit to you the idea that an obedient child who does the things we tell them to do isn’t necessarily faith-filled.
If our children see us making decisions and living our lives based on Godly principles and faith we are effectively training them up in the way that they should go. Conversely, if we tell our children one thing; I love God and have faith in Him, and do not show it to them by how we live, we’re training them to be effective hypocrites, not faithful Christians. Should we be surprised when they leave home and turn away from God? The truth may be that they never were turned toward God, so how could they turn away?
So, when Paul tells Timothy he believes the same faith he saw in his grandmother and mother is in Timothy, it’s because Paul saw them demonstrate their faith. If Paul saw it, then Timothy did too. They effectively trained Timothy up in the way of being faithful.
Do you know God? God knows you, and He loves you. He sees you as significant because you are. No one is insignificant to Him. He’s with you today, right now, and He wants you to know Him. Jesus died for your sins and mine so we could be free of guilt, be freed from death, and live eternally with Him. Eternal salvation is just a prayer away.
Pray this prayer with me to accept the gift of salvation today:
Lord Jesus, forgive me for all my sins. I repent from my ways. Wash me in your blood and cleanse me from all unrighteousness. I believe that you died on the cross, were buried, and on the third day, God the Father raised you from the dead. Right now, Lord Jesus, I open the door to my heart, and I receive you into my heart as my Lord and personal Savior. Amen.
If you prayed that prayer, then congratulations! You are on the first step of a brand new life. Allow me to be the first to welcome you to my family, the family of God. There are abundant resources available online for new Christians. You can visit here for more information on what to do next. You can also leave me a comment, and I’ll do my best to help you on the next step of this incredible journey.
I have personally known so-called “Christian” parents, who’s children proclaimed Jesus Christ as their savior, go off into living a sinner’s life. Why? Because the parents believed in a false Christ, false doctrine.
One family I knew for over 25 years, the parents were trying to start up a “Christian” community in an apartment complex which they were the superintendent’s of. I knew their son since he was 7 years of age, and I saw the writing on the wall, I prayed for this boy and watched him grow up, now in his 30’s he is living in the gay lifestyle, and his parents separated, the father pressed for a divorce, the mother, is ecumenical. Their “ministry” was not of the Lord, and it was “cult” like.
Another man whom I have known for 43 years, who was involved with that cult, where the women Pastor was sent to prison. Before the raid, I was a witness to his marriage, sang at their wedding, matter of fact we shared a bedroom at the home fellowship, with bunk beds. He and his wife had 4 children, however since they did not leave the cult quickly, non of their children are now following the Lord, and it has been such a sorrow to him. I just recently had to separate myself from him after coming to the realization what he actually believed. He said “doctrine” was a church traditional belief, he refused to believe that the Lord was a God of specific details, and that details were just a “churchanity” belief-ism………and he still kept to some of the false teachings we received at this cult…. I was stunned by this…….so painfully I had to separate myself from him, because I had a “high respectful” regard for him, but it clouded my judgement.
Oh by the way, that women Pastor at the home fellowship, ALL of her son’s no longer want anything to do with the Lord, they live closer to their father, who divorced the woman pastor because of her becoming a teacher/pastor. She is now back living near her ex-husband and her sons with dementia. She was finally kicked out of the home fellowship a few years ago, but the damage has been done, and they are all ecumenical, and allowing women to be Elder’s, teacher’s over the Body of Christ and men. I’ve attended their meetings via live streaming, and it is so very sad. One family is now in control of the group, and they don’t see where they are heading. And they were people I truly loved, but I thank the Good Lord above for having me separated from them years ago.
Also one thing I have always remembered, while I was living in the gay lifestyle, I met so many men who were gay, who came out from various denominational “Christian families”! Either their father’s were busy being a Pastor, and serving the church was their first priority, while neglecting their family duties, or were very “legalistic” believer’s with domineering mother’s, and weak father’s.
So I am saying all of this to confirm that what you are stating is very much on the mark, because I also am a witness to this truth you are sharing! It is truly sad, to see this occurring…disobedience to the truth, brings terrible eternal and sorrowful consequences.
Oh you may be interested in reading this regarding “Faith”:
https://comeseegoodnessofthelord.wordpress.com/2020/06/29/the-trust-faith-of-christ-towards-god-dwells-within-us/
May the Good and Gracious Lord bless you….
In His Eternal Love…..
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Amen. Thank you, brother, for sharing what you have witnessed. It’s sad when these things happen.
God bless you!
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It is more than sad, it’s devastating……there is a serious problem…….the problem is what God were they following and serving? “We shall know them by their fruit” what truth’s were they believing, what person’s, teachings did they place above the Lord, and follow, that is idolatry. What traditions of men, and leaven did they practice or consume? Why did they not see that? The narrow way protects us, the Broad way leads to death and destruction. Why would they not listen to reasoning? Because they could not hear, they could not see, why? They were not of Him………
I love the words of this song, and how true the Lord will make it real in our lives……”though none go with me, still I will follow…..no turning back……no turning back.” However Grace will be there every step of the way.
Lord bless you
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What can you do when you have done all you can do to keep children on the straight and narrow? It is so hard to get them back when others have influenced them to not believe in God. It literally breaks my heart to know that there are so many children and adults alike who are on the road to destruction. I pray they will see the light of the Lord and turn around and run full speed ahead into the arms of Jesus and repent of their sins before it is too late.
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We can always pray and trust God. He is faithful!
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